So both sons have finished exams. I know oldest son failed at least one course, as he left his email open. I haven't said anything to him. Trying to just back off. It makes him crazy when I snoop.... I get it. Younger son seems to have done ok on exams so far. Oldest has an appointment with a career counsellor tomorrow, and I have been waiting for him to decide what road he is taking from here on out. We have told both boys we will not pay tuition in the fall. We feel they need to have some responsibility in their own education. I can see us helping younger son winter term if he does well fall term. I think they both will be out of the house by fall, which is a good thing for all of us. We love our boys but I want some peace and quiet, and time for my husband and I to heal from the last few chaotic years. Oldest son was up today, it was nice out and he was with friends. That is a good thing . I'm taking the little successes, and trying not to focus on only the bad.... Like the failed course.