rejectedmom
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We went to her nurologist last week. Her medications were changed up and she did better for a few days but the headaches have returned again. We have a second opinion consult with a neurologist in NY this weekend.
Hoping for more answers, therapies etc. but will probably not get much new advice.
She is considering a personal injury suit againt the athletic club where she was injured. I think it might be a good idea. She will need financial help once the divorce goes through.
We had a long talk yesterday and she realizes she no longer has any feelings for her husband. She said that she just wants him gone from the house. in my opinion that is good. She is a sweet person and gives everyone so much forgivness and understanding. Honestly, husband and I think she was being too nice to him under the circmstances.
His family wanted her to have TG with them but she said no and will come to us. Her husband thinks that everything (except the sleeping arrangements although he would like bedroom priveleges if he could have them) shoud be as it always was as long as they co-habitate. She is beginning to reaize that is not the best way to go. She and I think this interim time it is a good time to show the kids that things are and will be different for the holidays but still fun.
He insisted upon going to the pumpkin patch with us and actually also insisted on hugging me when we met up. I couldn't believe it. I didn't make a fuss because the kids were there but really! He knows that I know the entire story of his emotional blackmail and abuse. He knows that I know he has tried to get her to "swing" and wants a divorce because she said no. He knows that I know he tried to bribe her by saying he would pay for her job retraining only if she did it. A true difficult child. He is so into himself he can't understand that as easy child's mother I cannot embrace him because it is like telling him that all he has done to her is OK. I have to be civil because of the kids but my head felt like it would explode when he put his arms around me. -RM
Hoping for more answers, therapies etc. but will probably not get much new advice.
She is considering a personal injury suit againt the athletic club where she was injured. I think it might be a good idea. She will need financial help once the divorce goes through.
We had a long talk yesterday and she realizes she no longer has any feelings for her husband. She said that she just wants him gone from the house. in my opinion that is good. She is a sweet person and gives everyone so much forgivness and understanding. Honestly, husband and I think she was being too nice to him under the circmstances.
His family wanted her to have TG with them but she said no and will come to us. Her husband thinks that everything (except the sleeping arrangements although he would like bedroom priveleges if he could have them) shoud be as it always was as long as they co-habitate. She is beginning to reaize that is not the best way to go. She and I think this interim time it is a good time to show the kids that things are and will be different for the holidays but still fun.
He insisted upon going to the pumpkin patch with us and actually also insisted on hugging me when we met up. I couldn't believe it. I didn't make a fuss because the kids were there but really! He knows that I know the entire story of his emotional blackmail and abuse. He knows that I know he has tried to get her to "swing" and wants a divorce because she said no. He knows that I know he tried to bribe her by saying he would pay for her job retraining only if she did it. A true difficult child. He is so into himself he can't understand that as easy child's mother I cannot embrace him because it is like telling him that all he has done to her is OK. I have to be civil because of the kids but my head felt like it would explode when he put his arms around me. -RM