Star,
I was drinking coffee when I read about that gospel music, lol... Luckily none of it is on my keypad. You are an incredible person! Always seeing the humor in everything, making us laugh even in the most miserable moments - I agree with the others, you are a bright light, a shining star, and we're blessed to have you in our "family!"
I'm relieved that your DF is going to get the treatment he needs even if Medicaid is going to blow a gasket. Our health system is so messed up - the understatement of the morning!! I'm also glad to hear your mother is doing OK.
So very sorry to hear about Dude, but I believe he is super strong, brave, and determined to help himself. Otherwise, he wouldn't be turning himself into rehab. Praying as hard as I can that this is the time he is finally going to turn his life around...
As always, keeping you and your family close in my thoughts and prayers... Many hugs... SFR