happymomof2
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Son got his first referral in 4 months today. Our IEP is scheduled for 12 noon. The referral was for using foul language and threatening to beat up another student. He has been having problems with this kid for about a week now. The kid is just pushing his buttons and I guess he pushed the final button this morning.
This IEP is to get him into regular ed for next year. GOD why did he have to do this today!!! The warden said she doesn't recommend him getting out. I ask if that is the final say. She said no, I can still take him out but they will write down that it is against there recommendations.
I told her regular ed kids get referrals. She said we can't compare him to regular ed kids. *** is he an alien?? I am so frustrated. I talked with a guidance counselor there at the school that has known my son since 3rd grade and she still believes like I do that my son needs to be out and can do this. But what happens next year if he sneezes the wrong way or lets a cuss word slip and is overheard??
He will be held to a higher standard than most because of being in self contained. Aughhhhhh that ticks me off. So you have a kid that has a little difficulty already and your going to hold him to higher standards than all the other kids.
I don't want to jump to conclusions and we will have to see what happens next year. I thought about him changing schools if need be. If he ends up back in there it will be on his shoulders and mine as well.
I am a nervous person anyway and I am so dreading this meeting. His dad is working out of town this week, I so wish he was here to go with me. I know I can do this. May throw up afterwards.
I am going to stand my ground. I love my son I want him out of those classes and according to him that is what he wants to. He will make me look like a first class fool if he ends up back in there next year but oh well.... I have looked worse.
Asking for prayers and good vibes going in. I will let you know what happens.
Thanks
This IEP is to get him into regular ed for next year. GOD why did he have to do this today!!! The warden said she doesn't recommend him getting out. I ask if that is the final say. She said no, I can still take him out but they will write down that it is against there recommendations.
I told her regular ed kids get referrals. She said we can't compare him to regular ed kids. *** is he an alien?? I am so frustrated. I talked with a guidance counselor there at the school that has known my son since 3rd grade and she still believes like I do that my son needs to be out and can do this. But what happens next year if he sneezes the wrong way or lets a cuss word slip and is overheard??
He will be held to a higher standard than most because of being in self contained. Aughhhhhh that ticks me off. So you have a kid that has a little difficulty already and your going to hold him to higher standards than all the other kids.
I don't want to jump to conclusions and we will have to see what happens next year. I thought about him changing schools if need be. If he ends up back in there it will be on his shoulders and mine as well.
I am a nervous person anyway and I am so dreading this meeting. His dad is working out of town this week, I so wish he was here to go with me. I know I can do this. May throw up afterwards.
I am going to stand my ground. I love my son I want him out of those classes and according to him that is what he wants to. He will make me look like a first class fool if he ends up back in there next year but oh well.... I have looked worse.
Asking for prayers and good vibes going in. I will let you know what happens.
Thanks