guitaristmom
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My daughter's behavior took a sharp downturn when she turned 13. That year, she hit me in the car after I picked her up from school. her behavior soon turned to truancy (also faking illness to get out of school)'and at night til we caught it and nailed the window closed, running out to parties and drugs with her friends overnight.
She was diagnosed with conduct disorder in high school. Damage to a wall in our home, I called the police. For years being called by her to me profanity. Got her drivers license at 20 and in 5 years went through 4 cars. The first one was totaled. The second she didn't want after all so she traded it in for an old car, engined died. Husband consigned yet another car loan a year ago, then there is the DUI and its charges, paying two large speeding tickets, car repairs, food bills..she got a job. Her student loans kicked in but she did not pay them so my husband did because his name was on them. Got her license suspended and we helped reinstatement, then suspended again without our knowledge then she told us, and we told her to correct the matter, no time. She bought a $375 kitty litter box, and I witnessed a shopping spree. Unprotected sex with a guy she met online on a singles board led to a baby.
Baby not cared for..bottles left to stagnate in room. Told her to pick them up. Moldy bottles in sink, dishes piled high. Drugs in home. I called cps. She won't let me see grandbaby anymore.
Her boyfriend won't let his parents see the baby either.
Driving the car on a suspended license, she has paid no car loan payments, disregard for the law, she is stopped and car impounded. Car in husbands name, we have to go down and get it, cost to take out of impound: $275. Billed daughter thru bank for charge and she declined.
We ended up in front of a therapist. With his guidance, we have determine that the only way she will get her car back is if she pays the purchase price in full, and the impound fee, and if she has a valid drivers license (at last report she told husband that the license branch won't reinstate it)
She went from calling me her best friend 6 weeks ago to using profanity again and my being her enemy. her actions have strained my husband and my marriage. He wants to work it out buthe has to get through his own anger of being exploited by her for $10,000 last year and the fact that she has stuck him with $100k of student loans. We are being asked by her default to pay for the two purebred dogs she got at top dollar in college, the one thousand dollar electronic violinand who knows how much more on drugs and partying.
We are hiring a lawyer in about a week to garnish her wages. Emotionally I am getting off my daughter's roller coaster.
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She was diagnosed with conduct disorder in high school. Damage to a wall in our home, I called the police. For years being called by her to me profanity. Got her drivers license at 20 and in 5 years went through 4 cars. The first one was totaled. The second she didn't want after all so she traded it in for an old car, engined died. Husband consigned yet another car loan a year ago, then there is the DUI and its charges, paying two large speeding tickets, car repairs, food bills..she got a job. Her student loans kicked in but she did not pay them so my husband did because his name was on them. Got her license suspended and we helped reinstatement, then suspended again without our knowledge then she told us, and we told her to correct the matter, no time. She bought a $375 kitty litter box, and I witnessed a shopping spree. Unprotected sex with a guy she met online on a singles board led to a baby.
Baby not cared for..bottles left to stagnate in room. Told her to pick them up. Moldy bottles in sink, dishes piled high. Drugs in home. I called cps. She won't let me see grandbaby anymore.
Her boyfriend won't let his parents see the baby either.
Driving the car on a suspended license, she has paid no car loan payments, disregard for the law, she is stopped and car impounded. Car in husbands name, we have to go down and get it, cost to take out of impound: $275. Billed daughter thru bank for charge and she declined.
We ended up in front of a therapist. With his guidance, we have determine that the only way she will get her car back is if she pays the purchase price in full, and the impound fee, and if she has a valid drivers license (at last report she told husband that the license branch won't reinstate it)
She went from calling me her best friend 6 weeks ago to using profanity again and my being her enemy. her actions have strained my husband and my marriage. He wants to work it out buthe has to get through his own anger of being exploited by her for $10,000 last year and the fact that she has stuck him with $100k of student loans. We are being asked by her default to pay for the two purebred dogs she got at top dollar in college, the one thousand dollar electronic violinand who knows how much more on drugs and partying.
We are hiring a lawyer in about a week to garnish her wages. Emotionally I am getting off my daughter's roller coaster.
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