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toughlovin
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Arghhh.... ok just imagine me swearing a blue streak and banging my head against the wall in frustration!!!!
I just got a call from the sober house. They caught my difficult child with a bag of spice (synthetic pot). This is what happened a year ago. I am so completely frustrated and of course we have been snowed with his need for extra money. We should have know! Darn it.
The sober house folks are good people. They are pretty fed up but also want to support us and be on the same page with us. So they are taking him to the airport tomorrow to come back for the court date... then they will take him back Tuesday night... in other words they will give him another chance (otherwise we are stuck having him up here which is not good). But if there is another problem they are done and he will end up homeless. Better for him to be homeless down south this time of year than up here in the Northern regions!!
We also will start giving the sober house person money for his groceries and he will budget it out for him. And yes spice is illegal there.... so who knows where he is getting it.
I have a real bad feeling about all this and think there is a good chance he will come back, party with his friends, screw up in court and not go back..... in which case he will end up in jail or homeless here in the winter.
I just need to keep saying the serentiy prayer 100 times a day the next couple of days.
I cannot let this send me over the edge. I am so darned frustrated. What an idiot.... I mean really.
TL
I just got a call from the sober house. They caught my difficult child with a bag of spice (synthetic pot). This is what happened a year ago. I am so completely frustrated and of course we have been snowed with his need for extra money. We should have know! Darn it.
The sober house folks are good people. They are pretty fed up but also want to support us and be on the same page with us. So they are taking him to the airport tomorrow to come back for the court date... then they will take him back Tuesday night... in other words they will give him another chance (otherwise we are stuck having him up here which is not good). But if there is another problem they are done and he will end up homeless. Better for him to be homeless down south this time of year than up here in the Northern regions!!
We also will start giving the sober house person money for his groceries and he will budget it out for him. And yes spice is illegal there.... so who knows where he is getting it.
I have a real bad feeling about all this and think there is a good chance he will come back, party with his friends, screw up in court and not go back..... in which case he will end up in jail or homeless here in the winter.
I just need to keep saying the serentiy prayer 100 times a day the next couple of days.
I cannot let this send me over the edge. I am so darned frustrated. What an idiot.... I mean really.
TL