hi, so i've been waiting for the school's decision for weeks now on whether or not they'll supply in home tutoring for difficult child. i keep emailing, because due to their cps investigation into me 3x they did it again by the way!! i cant' talk to them verbal anymore. i decided i wont' take a chance. so, today i get the email stating that they'll give her tutoring only to "catch up" on it, so it's the make up hours. than went into again hospital in oregon they need MORE documentation stating diff things. so on and on it went via email. i have to cover all my bases. I than began emailing the Special Education dept and district also requesting the 504 renewal meeting because i'm not applying for an IEP for her. their nasty, indifferent with me. Special Education/district dept called me and i just told them please email me any info from now on. made it sound like it's easier for me instead of phone contact. their all over me, its' the craziest thing even still. than cps is on me also still in a big way. got letter today from them stating that they need to contact more ppl about me. now their investigating me taking care of easy child!! LOL. so i had to sign consent forms for them to contact both the kids doctors! it's just getting out of control now, anyone think so too? if you guys went thru this how long did it take? this is 3 mos now at least of ongoing mtgs, phone calls, now them calling everywhere and anywhere about me. school keeps filing more cps reports against me. i'm not getting emotional about it. yet it's frustrating. so i sat tonight and thought to myself in our town there has to be a "head" of someone somewhere that i can write to, give them info about what the school's done to me etc. to say hey what's really going on? who hates me this much?? i wouldnt' write that yet you get the idea. you would think after all this time it would be over now. so now i'm slamming school all day long with emails to both the guidance counselor, now the district/ Special Education dept. also i asked them why on earth was difficult child's name called out ea. and every morning for attendance in school when you knew full well where she was? it only added addtl pressure to my stepson whose in her class or was, the kids are still gossiping saying difficult child's weird. my stepson unfortunately comes home and reports back to difficult child and us. which we told him he shouldn't. round and round we go. so, now they have so many emails from me asking 1. why'd it take so long to get in home tutors in? 2. why are you the school educationally neglecting her at this point 3. the attendance issue any thoughts? my idea now is to get my iep and fight for in home tutoring and get outta here come june. granted husband and i can handle that with mess we're in. seems pointless. difficult child and i spoke she basically said i have no friends i want a friend so bad. i said i know. so today i went to library with her which is huge here and we registered her for every thing they had there. like teen movie nights, a bunch of diff things they had besides movies. hoping she'll meet a new kid there and a friendship will form.