Finally after Saturday's move was cancelled because the guy who was going to help never showed, difficult child is moved in. The boyfriend of a friend of hers from rehab and the sober house who is also in AA offered to help, drove the uhaul for her and got the furniture from here this afternoon and then went to her old apartment and helped get the last few things. While there her old roommate followed her around and never said one word to her. I asked her why she was acting like that and she said she had no idea and even her moving friend said she was acting very wierd. They are all friends from AA. difficult child swears she never did anything to her for her to act that way and whether it was the dog or something else that caused the rift I guess we will never know.
She sent me pics of the furniture in her apt and it looks really nice. She said she is finally home and it really looks like a home. Before she left today I gave her a big hug and told her the most important thing for her to keep now beside her sobriety was her job because she needed it to live and she said she knew that.
I'm relieved she is finally in her own place, even though I still have a lot of worries about it, but this is a real test for her and an opportunity to really grow up. She's been cleaning and fixing it up and I've never seen her so excited about something.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed that she doesn't self sabotage now that things are going well.
Nancy
She sent me pics of the furniture in her apt and it looks really nice. She said she is finally home and it really looks like a home. Before she left today I gave her a big hug and told her the most important thing for her to keep now beside her sobriety was her job because she needed it to live and she said she knew that.
I'm relieved she is finally in her own place, even though I still have a lot of worries about it, but this is a real test for her and an opportunity to really grow up. She's been cleaning and fixing it up and I've never seen her so excited about something.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed that she doesn't self sabotage now that things are going well.
Nancy
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