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toughlovin
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Hi everyone,
Well my day was made today because I just got a collect call from difficult child. I thought it meant something was wrong but I think he was just calling to say hi. It was a good conversation. He is in WY on his way to Denver. He is travelling with a friend and was waiting for a ride from a trucker. He is having adventures... and he is having fun smoking weed. (Ugh but I stayed neutral). I told him I was not trying to control him and he said he got that. I also told him for Xmas we would get him a coat and he said that and snow pants would be awesome. I told him I liked hearing from him, that I worried about him, and we just love him and support him. He said he knew that. So all in all it was a good conversation. I feel good that he connected and is in touch with us and is not asking me for anything. (I made the offer about the coat). Clearly he is still smoking pot but that is not a surprise to me.... doesnt sound like he is doing harder stuff though.
TL
Well my day was made today because I just got a collect call from difficult child. I thought it meant something was wrong but I think he was just calling to say hi. It was a good conversation. He is in WY on his way to Denver. He is travelling with a friend and was waiting for a ride from a trucker. He is having adventures... and he is having fun smoking weed. (Ugh but I stayed neutral). I told him I was not trying to control him and he said he got that. I also told him for Xmas we would get him a coat and he said that and snow pants would be awesome. I told him I liked hearing from him, that I worried about him, and we just love him and support him. He said he knew that. So all in all it was a good conversation. I feel good that he connected and is in touch with us and is not asking me for anything. (I made the offer about the coat). Clearly he is still smoking pot but that is not a surprise to me.... doesnt sound like he is doing harder stuff though.
TL