Difficult Child AS is really ramping up. Not that it is preventing him from partying and staying out all night and couch surfing. Says we are giving up on him too soon. He wants to do probation and community service diversion with out patient rehab. He wants to continue with school and by us putting him out we are ruining his life. Out patient rehab has done nothing for him. He is failing at school and does not attend regularly enough to succeed. If he approaches probation and community service the way he has approached school and bail, this will be short lived. The FOG and gaslighting are getting to me. I don’t know if I am going to have the strength it will take to not fold and let him back home. I need to I find the strength not to let him come back home.