dstc_99
Well-Known Member
So as you all know I got triangulated into a family vacation with my mother, father, brother, brothers girlfriend, difficult child, and easy child. We just got home from it Saturday. All in all it wasn't too bad. We did wind up staying with them since my mother in law has sucked me dry in the last few weeks. I swear my bank account is dying slowly. LOL
My parents pretended nothing had happened and that everyone was hunky dory just like I predicted. My Brother kept his head burried in the sand and his girlfriend doesn't know us too well so she didn't say anything. difficult child started in on the first day telling me what I could and couldn't do in regards to rehoming my dog. I immediately said "you lost your vote when you moved out." difficult child then proceeded to refuse to do anything with us for the rest of the week. husband thought my comment was uncalled for but only after I asked him later and not in front of the others. I probably shouldn't have said it but I think I have a form of PTSD from all her bossing me around and I tend to go with the gut punch when she pushes me. Really what right does she have to tell me what I can do with my dog considering she doesn't live us anymore?
Anyway I thought it was somewhat funny that my father and mother are getting to see the nasty side of difficult child. She is starting to talk to them the way she talked to me forever. Plus blowing them off and acting like an pain when she "isn't in the mood" for other people. Honestly I hate to see them treated that way but I didn't stand up for them considering they chose to accomodate her bad behaviour.
My parents pretended nothing had happened and that everyone was hunky dory just like I predicted. My Brother kept his head burried in the sand and his girlfriend doesn't know us too well so she didn't say anything. difficult child started in on the first day telling me what I could and couldn't do in regards to rehoming my dog. I immediately said "you lost your vote when you moved out." difficult child then proceeded to refuse to do anything with us for the rest of the week. husband thought my comment was uncalled for but only after I asked him later and not in front of the others. I probably shouldn't have said it but I think I have a form of PTSD from all her bossing me around and I tend to go with the gut punch when she pushes me. Really what right does she have to tell me what I can do with my dog considering she doesn't live us anymore?
Anyway I thought it was somewhat funny that my father and mother are getting to see the nasty side of difficult child. She is starting to talk to them the way she talked to me forever. Plus blowing them off and acting like an pain when she "isn't in the mood" for other people. Honestly I hate to see them treated that way but I didn't stand up for them considering they chose to accomodate her bad behaviour.