rejectedmom
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difficult child blew another opportunity. He had been floundering with his job and wasn't paying his bills. He was told that he needed to have more supervision with his money matters and needed to show his caseworker his paystub every week. He was two months behind on his rent and court fees. Evidently he balked and quit his job altogether. This was on Friday. Then his girlfriend was hospitalized for something not sure what. difficult child went off the deep end and went out and got falling down drunk. He had a drunken black out and has no memory of the night at all. He was so out of it he returned to the group home in this state. I was told he wet himself and knocked over a coffee table and broke a door of a china cabinet while they tried to get him up to his room. The case worker had to report the drinking to difficult child's PO by law. After she called me she came to find out that while blacked out difficult child had mad a phone call to a previous girlfriend (also a client of theirs) and left a threatening message. She called to tell me about this and that the Police were called and were on their way over to arrest him. About twenty minutes later she called back to tell me that difficult child was not arrested but rather issued a warning due to his mental health issues and being in this program. He was told if he ever threatened this gitl again he would be charged with harrassment. Some relief but unfortunately the program has terminated him. They feel they have no choice and I understand their position. They will refer him to a shelter program or another Mental health program and he will be placed out whithin 30 days. But it doesn't end here. difficult child might still be violated on his parole. If he is, he could face up to 5 years in the state prison. It is in the PO's hands once again.
Poor husband he just got back from the nursing home visiting his alsheimer's afflicted father to get this news. I am worried about him he went to bed got up and hasn't stopped eating since. He lives away from home half the week and will be leaving tonight. Like I said I worry about him since he has a history of depression. -RM
Poor husband he just got back from the nursing home visiting his alsheimer's afflicted father to get this news. I am worried about him he went to bed got up and hasn't stopped eating since. He lives away from home half the week and will be leaving tonight. Like I said I worry about him since he has a history of depression. -RM