What about Christmas?

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by Gail, Dec 14, 2017.

  1. GStorm

    GStorm Becoming Independent

    An update about my son R., who has moved out of state to KY. He got a job and he will come to get the car and start making payments. Now another question has come to my mind about handling Christmas. He and I have agreed to not exchange gifts. This us hard for me. He has cost me a lot of money, BUT, I do want to get at least a $50.00 gift card. Any feedback?
     
  2. pasajes4

    pasajes4 Well-Known Member

    That sounds appropriate.
     
  3. Tanya M

    Tanya M Living with an attitude of gratitude Staff Member

    Nothing wrong with giving him a gift card.
     
  4. recoveringenabler

    recoveringenabler Well-Known Member Staff Member

    I agree, a gift card seems appropriate.
     
  5. rosanna-d

    rosanna-d New Member

    Hi Gail, I think that is very appropriate. Christmas is Christmas and if it makes you feel good to do this, then to me, its the right thing.
    Rosanna
     
  6. Littleboylost

    Littleboylost On the road unwanted to travel

    Agree it is about giving and $50 gift card is appropriate.
     
  7. svengandhi

    svengandhi Well-Known Member

    Rather than give him a gift card, why don't you subtract $50 from what he owes you?