my adult son (32) was just kicked out by his girlfriend, he has a part time job that he doesnt make much effort to get enough hours to pay his bills or afford rent but has very unrealistic expectations of what he can find. I told him he needs to find a room to rent as i beleive thsts all he can afford, he insists he needs a private apartment so his kids have somewhere to visit him. Also everytime i mention about looking for a place he gets angry and has some excuse as to why he hasnt had time. Its only been a few days so maybe im expecting too much too soon? I told him he has two weeks as i think thats eniugh to find a room(i live in a student area that has a lot of single rooms for rent) however part of me feels guilty as he is my son and it seems cold to expect him out in two weeks. Im going on a trip with a friend in two weeks and quite honestly dont quite trust him innthe house when im not home due to his behaviour in younger days. Two weeks is not enough time to find an apartment but it is for a room. Thus he says its not enough time. Am i being unreasonable with a two week deadline for a 32 year old?