Difficult Child AS came back tonight. We have seen him twice since Dec 25th. Today he rolls in like nothing had changed and he had not been gone at all. It is 4:30 am I wake to shouting and find him gaming. Words were unpleasantly exchanged. Shortly after I hear him go down the stairs. My first thought is my wallet and my husbands. Mine is in the safe but I go to check on husbands. Once down stairs I instantly smell pot. Nope not happening. Mr 18% School average doesn’t have a whole lot of negotiating power. He starts the typica blubbering ....I am going to leave.....be my guest.....you don’t love me....not even up for negotiation....GET RID OF THE POT AND ABIDE BY THE HOUSE RULES OR ....with LOVE....GTFO....I love my girlfriend blah blah blah she helps me with school and everything....Wow tell her thansk for the effort but 18% second time around ain’t no great shakes....what else does she help with?? Supplying POT???....your unemployed and we sure don’t give you money. Then I get the I am sorry for being a screw up blah blah blah ....son the only thing you are screwing up is your own life. We are not going to allow you to disrespect our home and our rules. Told him if he left again to get someone else to hold his bail bond. I am not going to do it and risk my money. I told him I don’t beleive he is taking anything especially rehab seriously. I get the I am sorry I won’t do it again, I am going to start my homework tomorrow. .....hmmm no position of “I am leaving going back to girlfriend and cop mom”....looks like someone overstayed their welcome. Well buck up or GTFO. Ain’t no free lunch here. Re the homework ugh day late and a dollar short. Good luck pulling that off at T minus 14 days to exams. Told him get help from someone else. I am studying and writing certifications for my new job and wrapping up my old one. I have no time. Many resources he chosen not to utilize. TFB. Dad is heading on a business trip Sunday so he won’t be able to help you pull it out of the bag either. Grades are reflective of effort. I wish he had never come back. He freaked out the other day and asked if there was a bench warrant out for his arrest. I asked why. He had heard from one of his loser friends that his name had been called out in court. Asked me to call his lawyer as he was too affraid to. I did she had his charges put over again. Said March 15th is next court date and they expect an update report from rehab and are not impressed with his school grades or attendance; and the fact that he did not follow through on our patient counseling. Hey I tired. Once again Mr 18% didn’t follow through. I left a message with rehab intake asking for An ETA on his bed. Let’s pray it is soon. I really wish he had never come back before his rehab bed was ready.