Hello my online go-to people. I just found out today that a parent of a 7-year old boy in my neighborhood has been having some behavior problems and his school recommended therapy for him. The little boy says my grandson exposed to him to some really nasty porn in June. Grandson has done this before over a year ago and we shut him down hard. We thought it was over, but this event supposedly happened in June of this year. The mother is saying the child is traumatized by the visions of anal and vaginal penetration. The mother, a therapist herself, is being really cool about it but I can't even look at my grandson right now. He's in school, I haven't told my husband yet. We are pretty much pariahs in our neighborhood now because of his behaviors, where we raised our kids and we have always been well-respected. Now the neighbors are all talking about grandson. This isn't cute little boy shenanigans. This is scary and awful, I cannot imagine how to live here and go forward. I know that grandson will deny it until the cows come home. But I kind of believe it may be possible. I don't know who to contact. His psychiatrist at Kaiser is mostly concerned about which drugs to give him in her 10 minutes meetings with him once every three months. I'm hurting, I'm trying to figure out how to tell my husband and have put it off for hours because it's going to kill him inside. We always trusted grandson with the little kids. With his immature social skills, he gets along with them and they look up to him. Now this. I'm devastated.