DammitJanet
Well-Known Member
Buck has been in the hospital for around 2 and a half weeks now and they rushed him last night to one of our major trauma hospitals about 2 hours from me. This probably means very bad news. I dont think they managed to get up with husband last night because they called me at 2 am but I never heard the phone. The lady he is living with just woke me up at 10 till 7 and told me he is in very bad shape.
I have no idea how husband is going to react if he is that sick. I know Buck has no money to bury himself and personally I am not going to chip in. I think Buck should have taken care of this years ago. We had a friend who had himself donated to science and he died just a few months ago. I dont think we have enough time to set this up and we certainly dont have the time to buy one of those policies you see on TV. I am also sure none of his brothers or sister will contribute.
Am I a bad person for saying I really dont care how he gets buried? I dont think that is our problem or responsibility. The cheapest way we have found is cremation and that is over 2K and I am not willing to put that on us. Not to mention I dont think his family would go for that. I also would not pay for a service. Okay Im cheap but I think he should have bought one of those policies when he first turned eligible because he has no kids.
Oh this is going to turn into a fight I can just feel it.
I have no idea how husband is going to react if he is that sick. I know Buck has no money to bury himself and personally I am not going to chip in. I think Buck should have taken care of this years ago. We had a friend who had himself donated to science and he died just a few months ago. I dont think we have enough time to set this up and we certainly dont have the time to buy one of those policies you see on TV. I am also sure none of his brothers or sister will contribute.
Am I a bad person for saying I really dont care how he gets buried? I dont think that is our problem or responsibility. The cheapest way we have found is cremation and that is over 2K and I am not willing to put that on us. Not to mention I dont think his family would go for that. I also would not pay for a service. Okay Im cheap but I think he should have bought one of those policies when he first turned eligible because he has no kids.
Oh this is going to turn into a fight I can just feel it.